27.07.2026
S: You know, about five hundred people have read about my results at university, that I got a first class honours degree in Art History and Visual Cultures.
A: It’s a big readership. It’s a good thing that you didn’t fail.
S: Indeed. I’ve been spared the egg on the face.
A: Why mention this?
S: Because, despite all of those people reading, only a handful of close friends congratulated me on the degree. The reality of life is that most people can’t spare a couple of seconds to write congratulations for a major milestone in someone’s life. It shows you what the reward of success really is. Indifference.
A: Perhaps they are not indifferent? Perhaps there are other reasons for not writing?
S: It is always friendship that trounces the objective recognition of achievement. That is why there will never be a meritocracy.
A: You should have written about all of the challenges you faced while doing this degree.
S: You want me to talk about how I overcame the heartbreak, depression, isolation, loneliness and the massive amounts of work and volunteering that I was doing throughout this part time degree? I think that you are wrong. Nothing will ever impress these people. They have never recognised my achievements and they never will. In fact, all of the barriers that I have had to face, it is them that have put them before me. Instead of helping, they obstruct. They are the ones that gave me heartbreak and isolation and depression.
A: If you will never be accepted, forget about wanting to be accepted.
S: One should forget. But then, the People have asked for acceptance. And this is the fight that we fight. Climbing mountain after mountain. Achieving success after success. But yet, never finding that acceptance and warmth and love.